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BUT IMMORALITY: porneia de:
(Eph 5:5; 4:19,20; Numbers 25:1; Deuteronomy 23:17,18; Matthew 15:19;
Mark 7:21; Lk 12:15, Acts 15:20; Romans 1:18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24,
25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32-
From Paul's divinely inspired
"pattern of moral devolution" in Romans 1,
notice how suppression and rejection
of the knowledge of the true God naturally "devolves" into
worship of false gods and how this false worship in turn is intimately
associated with the practice of sexual immorality in all forms!
Upshot?
Knowledge of the one true and living God and growing intimacy with the
Lord Jesus Christ and His Spirit
[Gal 5:16-see
notes]
in daily quiet times of worshipful fellowship are the BEST
preventative measure (and cure) for those bound with the cords of the
sin (Pr 5:22) of sexual immorality and better than any of the Christian
books or programs that are flooding the marketplace! Let us return to
the "ancient paths", the "highway of holiness" and as Christian men
begin to experience a freedom in this area that heretofore we never even
thought was possible in light of the pervasive permeation of American
culture by sensuality and sexual seduction.;
Ro 6:13; 1Corinthians 5:10,11;
6:9,13,18; 10:8; 2Corinthians 12:21; Galatians 5:19, 20, 21; Colossians 3:5,
6, 7;
1Thessalonians 4:3,7; Hebrews 12:16; 13:4; 2Peter 2:10; Revelation
2:14,21; 9:21; 21:8; Revelation 22:15)
Note:
All verbs in
bold red
indicate commands, not suggestions!
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hold mouse pointer over
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In his summarization of this
chapter Charles Hodge writes...
It becomes saints to avoid not only
the sins of uncleanness and covetousness, but also all impropriety of
conduct and frivolity of language, Ephesians 5:3, 4. Because
uncleanness and covetousness not only exclude from heaven, but,
whatever errorists may say, bring down the wrath of God, Eph 5:5,6.
Christians, therefore, should not participate in those sins, seeing
they have been divinely enlightened and made the recipients of that
light whose fruits are goodness, righteousness and truth. They are
bound to exemplify this in their conduct, avoiding and reproving the
deeds of darkness, Eph 5:7, 8, 9, 10. Those deeds are too shameful to
be named; still they may be corrected by the power of that light which
it is the prerogative of believers to disseminate. Therefore the
Scriptures speak of the light which flows from Christ as reaching even
to the dead, Eph 5:12, 13, 14. Christians therefore should be wise,
making the most of every occasion for good, in the midst of the evils
by which they are surrounded, Eph 5:13, 14, 15, 16. They should seek
exhilaration not from wine, but from the Holy Spirit, and give
expression to their gladness in psalms and hymns, praising and
thanking God through Jesus Christ, Eph 5:17, 18, 19, 20.
In the preceding section the
apostle had spoken of sins against our neighbor; here from Eph 5:3 to
Eph 5:20 he dwells principally on sins against ourselves. Not only
fornication, but everything of the same nature, or that leads to it,
is to be avoided—and not only avoided, but not even named among
believers. The inconsistency of all such sins with the character of
Christians, as saints, men selected from the world and consecrated to
God, is such as should forbid the very mention of them in a Christian
society. With the sins of uncleanness the apostle here, as in the
preceding chapter, Eph 4:19, connects
pleonexia, covetousness. The word is
to be taken in its ordinary sense, as there is nothing in the context
to justify any departure from it. The assumption that sins of
sensuality are alone mentioned in this and the following verse, leads
to very forced interpretations of several of the terms employed. (Ephesians 5:3-20)
But (1161)
(de) conveys a very strong contrast with that which produces a
"fragrant aroma" before God. It is probably not too far fetched to take
from this contrast the implication that the following vices are a
"stench" in God's nostrils rather than a fragrant aroma! Thus Paul carries
the exhortation to be imitators of God (Eph 5:1,2) over to a prohibition expressed
in the strongest terms and which is leveled against one of the deadliest
and most inveterate temptations to which Gentile Christians were
exposed - porneia!
(As an aside, take a moment and hold your pointer over the cross
references listed above in order to get a sense of the seriousness and
pervasiveness of this sin throughout the ages!)
As Eadie
says porneia
was...
a sin which had eaten deep into the
Gentile world (Acts 15:20, 29) (John Eadie, D., LL.D. The Epistle of St
Paul to the Ephesians) (Comment: We might paraphrase Eadie's
words in terms of our modern culture -- "Pornography on the Internet
is a sin which has eaten deeply into the culture of America and has
seriously "infected" American Christianity and Christian men." [Covenant
Eyes is
strongly and highly recommended as it is not a "filter" but a "tracker"
of every website visited, with a report to your accountability partner
of those sites, taking special note of those "highly suggestive of
'mature' content".) (See also verse by verse studies on Proverbs 5-7 =
Proverbs 5:1-14;
Proverbs 5:15-23;
Proverbs 6:20-35;
Proverbs 7:1-27])
Hoehner
writes that...
The self-centered vices in conduct
and speech (Eph 5:3-4) are the opposite of the self-sacrificing love
spoken of in Eph 5:1,2-notes.
Since these vices portray selfishness and unconcern for others, a
believer should not have even a hint of these sins in his life. (Walvoord,
J. F., Zuck, R. B., et al: The Bible Knowledge Commentary. 1985. Victor).
Among you -
''you'' is plural. There is not to be one loose cannon on the deck. Not
one guy cheating on his wife. Not one church staff member hooked on
internet pornography. We are saints, holy ones of God. We have laid
aside these old filthy garments and are wearing the robes of Christ's
righteousness. We need to live like it, and in context love like Christ.
In this verse Paul shows what love does not look like!
John Piper
warns that...
Fornication should be eliminated from
your life if you are a Christian. It should be shunned like a dangerous
disease. For it is far more dangerous than AIDS. AIDS can only kill your
body. Fornication can kill your soul as we will see from Eph 5:6 (cp Mt
10:28, Lk 12:4, 5).
(Ephesians 5:3-6:
The Enthronement of Desire)
Immorality (4202)
(porneia
from porneúo = commit fornication or any sexual sin)
originally referred to any excessive
behavior or lack of restraint, but eventually became associated with
sexual excess and indulgence. Porneia
originally was used especially to describe the practice of consorting
with prostitutes (porneis = “prostitute”) and eventually came to
mean “habitual immorality.”
Porneia as
used in the Scriptures describes any illicit sexual activity outside of
the divine bounds established by marriage and thus includes the ideas of
unlawful sexual intercourse, unchastity and fornication. Porneia
includes (but is not limited to) adultery, premarital sex,
homosexuality, bestiality, incest, and prostitution.
Porneia is the opposite of the Greek
word
enkrateia/ egkrateia
(word study) (literally
means "holding oneself in"), which usually referred to sexual self-control
(see Acts 24:25)
There are 25 uses
of porneia in the NT - Mt. 5:32; 15:19; 19:9; Mark. 7:21; Jn.
8:41; Acts 15:20, 29; 21:25; 1Co. 5:1; 6:13, 18; 7:2; 2Co. 12:21; Gal.
5:19; Eph. 5:3; Col. 3:5; 1Th 4:3; Rev 2:21; 9:21; 14:8; 17:2, 4; 18:3;
19:2
There are 36 uses
of porneia in the
Septuagint (LXX)
- Ge 38:24; Nu 14:33;
2Ki. 9:22; Is 47:10; 57:9; Jer 2:20; 3:2, 9; 13:27; Ezek 16:15, 22, 25,
33, 34, 36, 41; 23:7, 8, 11, 14, 17, 18, 19, 27, 29, 35; 43:7, 9; Ho
1:2; 2:2, 4; 4:11, 12; 5:4; 6:10; Micah 1:7; Nah 3:4
Cole writes that porneia...
includes premarital sex, extramarital
sex, incest, homosexuality, bestiality, and the use of pornography. Any
sex outside of the lifelong commitment of marriage is not rooted in love
(as I defined it in our last study [Reference],
“a self-sacrificing, caring commitment that shows itself in seeking the
highest good of the one loved”), but in lust. Outside of marriage, sex
devolves into using the other person for your own gratification. (Ephesians 5:3-6 Clean Up Your Act!)
As an aside, porneia refers primarily to sins of the flesh, but those sins can never
be divorced from the sins of the mind or heart, because all sin is
related. Sin in one area always makes us more susceptible to sin in
other areas (don't be deceived). No where does Scripture sanction the
commitment of any form of extramarital sexual activity...a far cry from
our modern American culture!
Our English word
pornography is from porneia (illicit sexual activity) + graph
(a
writing). Thus pornography ("porn") is a writing
(picture) related to illicit sexual activity of some variety.
Expositors Greek Testament writes that...
The
term porneia (fornication) is to be taken in its proper sense and
is not to be restricted to any one particular form—the license practiced
at heathen festivals, concubinage, marriage within prohibited degrees,
or the like. The moral life of the Greco-Roman world had sunk so low
that, while protests against the prevailing corruption were never
entirely wanting, fornication had long come to be regarded as a matter
of moral indifference, and was indulged in without shame or scruple, not
only by the mass, but by philosophers and men of distinction who in
other respects led exemplary lives.” (Nicoll, W Robertson, Editor:
Expositors Greek Testament: 5 Volumes. Out of print. Search Google) (Comment:
Does this comment remind you of any modern day society?)
Christianity
brought chastity, a virtue that was foreign to the Greco-Roman world.
Into this world of pagan idolatry where sexual immorality was not
only condoned, but regarded as normal, the Christian faith came as a
purifying fire. Twentieth-century America has reverted back to the “normality
of sexual immorality” and the revival fire of the Christian faith is
desperately needed.
Remember the
context of the society Paul was addressing. In the Greek culture of that
day, prostitution and fornication were considered permissible
activities. A married man in Greece cold engage in extramarital sexual
intercourse as much as he wished, but this practice was forbidden for
the wife! Athenaeus, a writer in the second century AD, quotes from a
speech of Demosthenes,
“We keep mistresses for pleasure,
concubines for daily concubinage, but wives we have in order to produce
children legitimately and to have a trustworthy guardian of our domestic
property.”
Kenneth Wuest records that
The moral life of the Greco-Roman
world had sunk so low that, while protests against the prevailing
corruption were never entirely wanting, fornication had long come to be
regarded as a matter of moral indifference, and was indulged in without
shame or scruple, not only by the mass, but by philosophers and men of
distinction who in other respects led exemplary lives. (Wuest,
K. S. Wuest's Word Studies from the Greek New Testament: Studies in the
Vocabulary of the Greek New Testament: Grand Rapids: Eerdmans)
In the book of Acts the early
church condemned all sexual experimentation outside of marriage James
declaring that the Gentiles who were turning to God from idols be
instructive
that they abstain from things
contaminated by idols and from fornication (porneia - in
this context the reference is to sexual sins in general but orgies that
were associated with the worship of the pagan idols) and from what is
strangled and from blood." (Acts
15:20)
The association of
idolatry and sexual immorality as alluded to in this
passage in Acts is frequently seen in many other passages of Scripture
(Ex 32:4, 5, 6, 28, Nu 25:1, 2, 3,4, 1Cor 10:7, 8, Rev 2:14, 21:8).
In Romans 1 Paul
clearly links idolatry with immorality writing...
"Professing to be wise, they became
fools, 23 and exchanged the glory of the incorruptible God for an image
in the form of corruptible man and of birds and four-footed animals and
crawling creatures (idolatry). 24 Therefore God gave them over (a
judicial term in Gr., used for handing over a prisoner to his sentence.
When men consistently abandon God, He will abandon them) in the lusts of
their hearts to impurity (a general term describing decaying matter,
like the contents of a grave and in context speaks of sexual
immorality), that their bodies might be dishonored among them. 25 For
they exchanged the truth of God for a lie (an idol is a lie, a false
representation of God), and worshiped and served the creature (idolatry)
rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. 26 For this
reason God gave them over (God's judicial sentence because of their
idolatry was to deliverer them over to the power of) to degrading
(dishonoring, disgracing, shameful) passions (which resulted in erotic
activity with members of their own sex); for their women exchanged the
natural function for that which is unnatural, 27 and in the same way
also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in
their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts
and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error."
(Romans
1:22-27)(see notes beginning with
Ro 1:22)
Comment: When men suppress the truth about God and fail to give
thanks to Him and honor Him (Ro 1:18, 19- note,
Ro 1:20, 21-note), they move away from
one of the greatest "protections" against sexual immorality. Notice the
same relation in 1Thessalonians 4:5 (note) where the Gentiles are "defined" as
those who do not know God and this failure to know God is linked by Paul
with their practice of "lustful passions". It follows that the
way to defeat lustful passions is to know God. In 2Cor 11:3 the deception by the devil is to
draw men's thoughts (the battle is in our mind) away from the simplicity and purity of devotion to Christ.
Again it follows that the best defense from being deceived (by the devil
or the lust of our flesh, James 1:14, 15-note) is to maintain a single
hearted (sincere), pure devotion to Christ (i.e., know God!) Sheep are always safest when they
remain close to the Chief Shepherd.
In summary, the best defense in our life long fight
against the pull of our fallen
flesh
to gratify ourselves through illicit sexual activity,
is to cultivate our relationship with the Chief Shepherd. Compare a
similar "pattern" in Galatians 5:16 [note]
where first we choose to continually obey Paul's command, and moment by
moment to surrender to the control and empowerment by the Spirit of
Christ, Who then enables us to not gratify the lusts of the
flesh.
This description is nothing short of the "victorious Christian life."
So let me get practical. How is your quiet time?
That is, are you sitting at the feet of the Shepherd (Lk 10:39, 40)?
Remember as our Lord said, really only one thing is necessary (Lk 10:41,
42). When we are doing the "good part" (Lk 10:42), daily seated at our
Lord's feet, we will be filled with His Word, which the Spirit of Christ
uses to renew our mind, control our thoughts and empower our walk (cp
the effects in Col 3:16-note
with those in Eph 5:18, 19, 20-note).
Are you daily taking in the living word of God
(cp Mt 4:4, 1Pe 2:2-note,
Acts 20:32) and
obeying the word
(James 1:22-note;
James 1:25-note), so that
you are growing in grace and the
knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ
(2Pe 3:18-note)?
If you
are, then the things of this world, including the lusts of the
passing pleasures (Heb 11:25-note,
1Jn 2:17) of this world will be increasingly growing "strangely
dim in the light of His glory and grace" (Hymn)."
Remember that in Paul’s day
the ancient pagan world in general and Corinth in particular was like much of
modern day post-Christian, anti-God, relative values ruled America is today, for people were strongly
intent on having their own ways and doing what was right in their own eyes
(Jdg 21:25). And what they did that seemed "right" to them was
particularly manifest in fulfilling their
lust in illicit sexual activities, even under the guise of "religious
worship.". Corinth in fact was so conspicuous for its practice of sexual
immorality that to corinthianize meant to participate in reckless debauchery.
Given this culture of rampant sexual permissiveness the body of Christ
was sorely affected (pun intended). And so Paul writing to the Corinthian
church declares that
It is actually reported that there
is immorality (porneia) among you, and immorality
(porneia) of such a kind as does not exist even among the Gentiles, that
someone has (present tense = an ongoing, habitual activity) his father's
wife." (1Cor 5:1 read the entire chapter [1Co 5:2, 3, 4, 5,
6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13] which describes immorality in
the church - and as you read be sure to observe that the admonition and
rebuke in this chapter is directed not so much to
those committing immorality but to the church who stood silently aloof, in fact arrogantly refusing to do anything about
this horrible blemish on their local body!)
Later in this same
letter Paul gives his instruction to individual believers who were being
tempted to play in the sewers of sexual immorality that was so
prevalent. Paul's advice was crystal clear...
Flee immorality
(porneia) (Flee is in the present
imperative =
flee and keep fleeing until the danger is past - when the seductive
commercial comes on the television, change channels or excuse yourself
from the room immediately! You have less than 5 seconds! Don't stay and
let a glance turn into a gaze rationalizing "I can handle this one!" -- In your own
strength you cannot! Remember that you won't fall into an illicit sexual
sin in a moment, but over time, as the little "cracks" in the dam
build up and erode so that one day you "suddenly" [all at
once]
commit an illicit act like the young man in Pr 7:22! Do not be deceived!) . Every other sin that a
man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his
own body (Porneia is more destructive to the sinner than other
sins because the one who engages in it cannot undo their act. In the
Screwtape Letters C. S. Lewis says that each time a man and a woman
enter into a sexual relationship a spiritual bond is established between
them which must be eternally enjoyed or eternally endured! Woe! cp
Paul's teaching 1Co 6:16, 17) Or do you
not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you
(1Co 3:16),
whom you have from God, and that you are not your own (Titus 2:14-note, 2Co
5:15, Ro 14:7, 8-note)? For you have been
bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body." (1Cor
6:18, 19, 20, 7:23, 1Pe 2:9-note, Acts 20:28, Gal 3:13, Heb 9:12-note, 1Pe 1:18,
19-note, 2Pe 2:1-note, Rev 5:9- note)
What Paul is
saying in the preceding passage is that sexual sin not
only is against God (Ge 39:9, Ps 51:4) and other persons (1Thes 4:6-note), it is also against ourselves.
Part of our moral responsibility to ourselves is to be sexually pure.
When Christians are immoral, the testimony of the gospel is polluted and
the holy Name of God is blasphemed. Furthermore, we can know all the
truth in the world, and yet by our falling into illicit sexual activity,
we are showing by that activity that we despise not only God (2Sa 12:10)
but also His Word (2Sa 12:14)!
Don't dabble with porneia ("pornography"), trifle with it
(there is no such thing as "soft porn" - it is a lie!), argue about
it, debate it, explain it and certainly don't try to rationalize it as a
"spiritual challenge" to be met but as a "spiritual trap" to be escaped.
Get away as fast as you can! God gives such a clear and strong command
because porneia is so serious, so seductive, so corrupting and so
shattering to spiritual relationships, both human and divine! So flee
for your life.
An excellent
well known illustration of "fleeing immorality" is found in the account of Joseph
when he was tempted to sin by Potiphar’s wife Joseph addressing her
advances declared
“There is no one greater in this
house than I, and he has withheld nothing from me except you, because
you are his wife. How then could I do this great evil, and sin
against God? [Joseph feared Jehovah and so turned away from evil, cf
Job 1:1, Ps 119:104, 128, 168, Pr 8:13, 16:6]”10 And it came about as she
spoke to Joseph day after day, that he did not listen to her to lie
beside her, or be with her.11 Now it happened one day (God allowed this
test - in every test of our hearts there is the potential that it will
turn into a temptation and we will succumb to the lust of our flesh,
James 1:14) that he went into
the house to do his work, and none of the men of the household was there
inside.12 And she caught him by his garment, saying, “Lie with me!” And
he left his garment in her hand and fled, and went outside.) (Genesis
39:9-12)
While there may be
safety in numbers, sometimes there is more safety in flight! It is like
the pastor who cautioned his handsome new assistant about the dangers of
immorality in the ministry. The assistant said that he always did his
socializing in a group setting and concluded that “there is safety in
numbers.” The wise pastor replied, “Yes, that is so, but there is
more safety in Exodus!”
How serious is
immorality? Paul's rhetorical question indicates the consequences can be
eternally serious asking...
Or do you not know that the
unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be
deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor
effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor
drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of
God. (1Cor
6:9-10)
William
MacDonald commenting on the passage in first Corinthians
adds that Paul...
does not mean to imply that
Christians can practice such sins and be lost, but rather he is saying
that people who practice such sins are not Christians. (MacDonald,
W & Farstad, A. Believer's Bible Commentary: Thomas Nelson or
Logos)
(Comment: Don't misinterpret what he is saying -- he does not say
Christians can never fall into this trap of sexual sin. When a Christian
commits sexual sin, he or she is one of the more miserable individuals
you will ever meet. And although they may be trapped by the cords of sin
as in Pr 5:22, their heart's desire to not to commit the sin but to come
out of that sin. If they have no desire and make no efforts whatsoever
to be extirpated from that sin, that is when one has to begin to wonder
whether they are truly regenerate.)
Paul goes on to
explain that a healthy sexual relationship within the bond of marriage is one of the main (if not the main) defense against
sexual immorality...
1Corinthians 7:2 But because of immoralities
(porneia - we might paraphrase this in terms appropriate to our modern
culture and say "because of the seductive danger, prevalence and
supposed privacy [cp Pr 5:21, 15:3] of internet pornography"),
let each man
have
(command, not a suggestion) his own wife, and
let each woman have
her own husband.
1Corinthians 7:5
Stop depriving
one another (present
imperative + a negative = command to stop doing
this, implying some were), except by agreement
for a time that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together
again lest Satan tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Solomon echoes this truth in Proverbs 5 calling on married
men to...
Proverbs 5:15 Drink water from your own cistern, And fresh water from
your own well.
16 Should your springs be dispersed abroad, Streams of water in the
streets?
17 Let them be yours alone, And not for strangers with you.
18 Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice in the wife of your youth.
19 As a loving hind and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at
all times; Be exhilarated always with her love.
20 For why should you, my son, be exhilarated with an adulteress, And
embrace the bosom of a foreigner? (See
notes Proverbs 5:15-23)
Porneia is
the more general term for all kinds of sexual sins and encompasses the
more specific sin of adultery (moichea
[3430])
which describes sexual sin in at least one person who is married. Jesus
used porneia to describe adultery in marriage, declaring
that everyone who divorces his wife,
except for the cause of unchastity (porneia - fornication), makes her
commit adultery (moichao = verb related to moichea); and whoever marries
a divorced woman commits adultery (moichao = verb related to moichea)
(see note
Matthew 5:32)
Porneia as
used in this verse in the context of marriage always constituted
adultery, which, by definition, is illicit sex by a married person.
In the ancient
world sexual activity (physical unfaithfulness) was often connected with
the idolatrous worship of false gods (spiritual unfaithfulness) (cf Nu
25:1, 2, 3, Rev 2:14-note,
Rev 2:20-note).
The verb form of porneia is used by Paul to describe the
immorality for which 23,000 (of the total of 24,000) Israelites were
killed by a plague in one day ("Nor let us act immorally [porneuo], as
some of them did, and twenty-three thousand fell in one day.1Cor 10:8;
cf. Nu 25:9). Because the majority, if
not all, of those slain were probably married, porneia clearly
includes adultery.
Porneia is
used most often with its lurid literal meaning but some NT uses (as well
as uses in the Septuagint) utilize porneia in a figurative sense to
picture idolatry or the forsaking of the true and living God to
worship dead idols. Scripture describes God as married to His Church
through Christ, so that any idolatry is unfaithfulness toward God
and is often depicted as analogous to sexual unfaithfulness to one’s
marriage partner! As alluded to earlier, this association between
"spiritual adultery" and idolatry is not at all surprising in view of
the fact that literal adultery was closely associated with the Gentiles,
which by definition did not know God (they knew about Him but did not
really know Him) and so lived in lustful passions (1Th 4:5-note).
To repeat one of the best "defenses" against falling into sexual
immorality is to know God.
In the OT God's
relationship to Israel was pictured as that of a Husband to His wife (cf
Isaiah 54:5). And so in Jeremiah we see
Jehovah describe His punishment of the adulterous northern
kingdom of Israel by allowing her to be defeated and exiled into Assyria
(He gave "her a writ of divorce"). In spite of God's clear warning, the
southern kingdom described as Israel's
treacherous sister Judah did not
fear; but she went and was a harlot (Lxx = porneuo verbal
root of porneia) also (why did she play the harlot? no reverential fear
of the holy God). And it came about because of the lightness of her
harlotry (Hebrew = zenut refers to sexual sin that violates the
marriage covenant; and is used most
often figuratively to describe the wickedness of the nation of Israel,
this wickedness usually being associated with the worship of idols, and
occasionally even descriptive of outright rebellion Nu 14:33; Lxx = porneia), that
she polluted the land and committed adultery (Lxx = moicheuo verbal form
of moicheia) with stones and trees." (Jer
3:8-9)
Addressing
Jerusalem, Jehovah declares to her that
you trusted in your beauty and
played the harlot (Hebrew = zanah = fornicate, prostitute, figuratively
of Israel's illicit relationship with other so-called gods; Lxx =
porneuo verbal root of porneia) because of your fame, and you poured
out your harlotries (Lxx = porneia), that she polluted the
land and committed adultery (Lxx = moicheuo verbal form of moicheia) on
every passer-by who might be willing...and besides all your abominations
and harlotries (Lxx = porneia) you did not remember the days of
your youth, when you were naked and bare and squirming in your blood."
23 "Then it came about after all your wickedness ('Woe, woe to you!'
declares the Lord GOD), 24 that you built yourself a shrine (Lxx says "a
house of fornication" or for harlots) and made yourself a high place in
every square. 25 "You built yourself a high place at the top of every
street (Lxx has "on the head of every way thou didst set up thy
fornications [porneia]") and made your beauty abominable; and you
spread your legs to every passer-by to multiply your harlotry
(Lxx = porneia). 26 "You also played the harlot ("go a whoring"
Lxx = related verb ekporneuo = to be utterly unchaste, to give
self over to fornication; to indulge in flagrant immorality) with the
Egyptians, your lustful neighbors, and multiplied your harlotry (Lxx =
related verb ekporneuo) to make Me angry....32 "You adulteress
(Lxx = moichao) wife, who takes strangers instead of her husband!" (Ezekiel
16:15,22-26, 32 read all of chapter 16 to see how God feels
about porneia!)
SEX IS
LIKE
A RIVER
Sex is a gift of
God which is like a great river flowing through life which, kept within
its banks, is a source of pleasure and power. However when a river overflows its
banks it becomes destructive and disaster ensues. In an analogous way,
the water contained within bounds and channeled through the great Hoover
Dam is the source of tremendous electrical power. However, if cracks
were allowed to develop in the dam and allow to grow, eventually the dam
would burst. Sexual impurity, is similar to a river overflowing its
banks or the cracks in a dam. It begins with just a few thoughts (that
come from a few "innocent" images) and grows and festers and is fed more
thoughts (images) until one day it suddenly breaks down. Sexual
immorality is like that. No believer commits sexual immorality in a
moment. It is a gradual erosion of the believer's core values, a
continual ignoring of one's conscience and a repeated repression of the
indwelling Spirit's urgings to refrain, to flee, etc. As godly men and
women, we must recognize the deceitfulness of any sin (Heb 3:13) but
especially the particularly pleasurable (passing Heb 11:25) sin of
illicit sexual activity. When the tempting thoughts come, we must take
them captive by grace and the power of the indwelling Spirit and hand
them over to the Captain of the hosts, our Lord Jesus Christ. (see 2Cor
10:5-). We flee from anything, anyone or anywhere, that improper sensual
suggestive images are portrayed (1Cor 6:18, cp Joseph in Ge 39:12)
Within marriage,
sex is beautiful, fulfilling, creative and has protective effect against
immorality (1Co 7:2, 5). Outside marriage, sex is ugly, destructive, and
like fire. In a fireplace, fire is warm and comforting. Outside the
hearth, fire is destructive and uncontrollable.
Solomon presented
a similar fiery metaphor in asking the rhetorical questions...
Can a man take fire in his bosom
(Ans? Yes if he is a fool!) and
his clothes not be burned? (Ans? No)
Or can a man walk on hot coals, and his feet not be scorched? (See
notes Pr 6:27,28)
As Billy Graham
has observed...
Satan fails to speak of the remorse,
the futility, the loneliness, and the spiritual devastation which go
hand in hand with immorality.
Jesus explained
porneia declaring that
the things that proceed out of the
mouth come from the heart, and those defile the man. For out of
the heart come evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications (porneia),
thefts, false witness, slanders. (Mt
15:18-19)
Jesus' point is
that the basis of all sin is the heart which would include our thought
life, the thoughts preceding the sinful outward act.
Porneia begins in the heart (cp Mt 5:28-note;
Job 31:9, cp what Job did "before" he saw a virgin, not after! Job 31:1;
Pr 6:25- note;
James 1:14-note-
where lust comes from within, from our fallen flesh; 2Pe 2:14-note
- eyes full of adultery because of a heart trained in greed causing them
to covet something someone else has -- e.g., their wife!). When a person is defiled on the inside,
what he does on the outside is also defiled. And so beloved,
Watch over your heart with
all diligence, for from it flow the springs of life.
(Pr 4:23)
John records that in the last
years just prior to our Lord's return indescribable sexual perversions
will be running rampant. He writes that those who dwell upon the earth
did not repent of their murders nor
of their sorceries nor of their immorality (porneia) nor of their thefts. (Rev
9:21)
Porneia is
an all-encompassing sensual or sexual immorality, a perfect description
of modern day America. Let's be honest. Most men (even Christian men!)
have problems with this area that they would not even dare tell anyone!
When you realize that you are complete in Christ and can now say "no" to
this sin, from that point on you are responsible what kind of mess you
get yourself into by not saying "Yes" to Jesus and "No" to immorality.
Remember that "victory" is not so much me overcoming the problem but
it's me having been overcome by Christ and it's now Christ in me who can
overcome. You don't have to live the way you did when you were dead in
your trespasses and sin. Your body is now dead to sin (the power of sin)
and alive to God in Christ Jesus.
Immorality is evidence of turning your back on God as (see
notes
Romans 1:25;
Romans 1:26;
Romans 1:27)
teaches. God will judge illicit sexual sin (Heb
13:4) whether one in a believer or an unbeliever and Peter
adds that but judgment begins at the household of God (see note
1 Peter 4:17)
because believers are even more accountable in view of the fact that
they have the power (see notes
Romans 6:11,
Ro 8:13,
Gal 5:24) to flee youthful lusts
and to abstain from fleshly lusts (1Pet
2:11). As Paul explained to believers who thought that now
that they were "covered" by grace and could sin
with impunity since grace abounded where sin increased, he countered
this deceptive teaching with horror
May it never be! How shall we who
died (dead men are positionally uninfluenced and unaffected pleasures of
this life) to (the) sin (the power of sin inherited from Adam is broken
along with the previous powerlessness to say "no" to it's reign and
demands to be gratified) still live in it? (see
note
Romans 6:2)
When we
surrendered to Christ and took him as Lord and Saviour, not as our "fire
insurance" policy!
The biblical view of immorality is summarized in (see note
1Thessalonians 4:3) where Paul records that
this is the will of God, your
sanctification (State of being set apart from sin and the world
to deity God); that is, that you abstain (literally continually
or as the habit of your life - present tense- to hold oneself away)
from sexual immorality (porneia).
Vine
comments that Paul
puts at the beginning of the list the
sins which set at defiance the primal laws of God which govern the
continuation of the human race and are essential to its well-being,
physical and moral...The first in this list is a specific sin; from this
there is a transition to the moral general. (Vine,
W. Collected Writings of W. E. Vine. Nashville: Thomas Nelson)
William Barclay
has an interesting historical note to put Paul's teaching in the
proper cultural context writing that
Chastity was the one
completely new virtue which Christianity brought into the world. In the
ancient world sexual relationships before marriage and outside marriage
were the normal and accepted practice. The sexual appetite was regarded
as a thing to be gratified, not to be controlled. That is an attitude
which is not unfamiliar today, although often it is supported by
specious arguments. The Christian ethic insists on chastity,
regarding the physical relationship between the sexes as something so
precious that indiscriminate use of it in the end spoils it." (Barclay,
W: The Daily Study Bible Series, Rev. ed. Philadelphia: The Westminster
Press)
Paul has
another "vice" list in Galatians writing that
the deeds of the flesh are evident,
which are: immorality
(porneia), impurity,
sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of
anger, disputes, dissensions, factions, envying, drunkenness, carousing,
and things like these, of which I forewarn you just as I have forewarned
you that those who practice such things shall not inherit the kingdom of
God. (see notes
Galatians 5:19;
20;
21).
John
records a similar warning writing that
for the cowardly and unbelieving and
abominable and murderers and immoral persons (related noun
pornos) and sorcerers and idolaters and all liars, their part
will be in the lake that burns with fire and brimstone, which is the
second death. (see note
Revelation 21:8)
Neither Paul nor
John is not saying that you won't go to heaven if you slip up and commit
these sins from time to time. But they do indicate that if these sins
are your lifestyle (and if there has never been a time in your
life when you experienced a degree of freedom from them) then you will
inherit not the kingdom of God but the lake of fire.
The Bible
Knowledge Commentary adds this insight on
Revelation 21:8...
"It should be obvious that this
passage is not affirming salvation by works, but rather is
referring to works as indicative of whether one is saved or not.
Obviously many will be in heaven who before their conversions were
indeed guilty of these sins but who turned from them in the day of grace
in trusting Christ as their Savior. Though works are the evidence of
salvation or lack of it, they are never the basis or ground of it." (Walvoord,
J. F., Zuck, R. B., & Dallas Theological Seminary. The Bible knowledge
commentary : An Exposition of the Scriptures. Wheaton, IL: Victor Books)
Someone has
written that immorality is like a cat’s paw. When lightly
stroked, it is quite soft and pleasurable, but increased pressure brings
out the claws of sin that will shred your very life.
Pastor Ray Stedman writes
that
Words like immorality do not
seem to register with many people. Let us put it plainly: Immorality
means no sexual wrongdoing; no pre-marital sex (no fornication); no
extra-marital sex (no messing around with someone else's wife or being
faithless to your own husband or wife); No homosexual sex (that is very
clear in Scripture in many places); No pornography (no standing in the
news section at the airport and flipping through Penthouse or Playboy
magazine and getting yourself turned on by looking at the pictures; that
is sexual fantasy and that is wrong, too, as Jesus pointed out). So to
"flee immorality" means to have none of those things going on in your
life. (from
Handling your Sex Drive)
Miscellaneous
related resources from John Piper:
Strategies for fighting sexual sin,
ANTHEM - Strategies for Fighting Lusts;
10 Steps Toward Sexual Sin: Pitfalls
and Protection for Christian Leaders
If you know
someone "wrestling" and being continually defeated by Internet
Immorality (and they want to be set free) have them check
Covenant Eyes
and then agree to be their
accountability partner. Under grace and with the Holy Spirit's
enablement (Gal 5:15, Ro 8:13), I have heard a number of men give testimony of the efficacy
of this tool. The difference between
Covenant Eyes and
other "porneia" blocking software is that
Covenant Eyes logs
every place you visit and keeps that record on a separate computer at
their headquarters. Your site visits are scored as to likelihood that
they have porneia and your accountability partner receives a periodic
report. Men need accountability in this day of widespread, seemingly
"anonymous" access to internet pornography. Remember though my beloved
brethren in Christ
The eyes of the LORD are in every
place, watching the evil and the good. (Pr 15:3)
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