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Romans 12:10 Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference (to one another in honor (NASB: Lockman)

Greek: te philadelphia eis allelous philostorgoi, te time allelous proegoumenoi, (PMPMPN)
Amplified: Love one another with brotherly affection [as members of one family], giving precedence and showing honor to one another (Amplified Bible - Lockman)
NLT: Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other. (NLT - Tyndale House)
Phillips: Let us have real warm affection for one another as between brothers, and a willingness to let the other man have the credit. (
Phillips: Touchstone)
Wuest: In the sphere of brotherly love have a family affection for one another, vying with one another in showing honor (
Erdmans
Young's Literal: in the love of brethren, to one another kindly affectioned: in the honour going before one another;

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to RIGHTEOUSNESS
Romans
1
:18-3:20
Romans
3:21-5:21
Romans
6:1-8:39
Romans
9:1-11:36
Romans
12:1-16:27
SIN SALVATION SANCTIFICATION SOVEREIGNTY SERVICE
NEED
FOR
SALVATION
WAY
OF
SALVATION
LIFE
OF
SALVATION
SCOPE
OF
SALVATION
SERVICE
OF
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God's Holiness
In
Condemning
Sin
God's Grace
In
Justifying
Sinners
God's Power
In
Sanctifying
Believers
God's Sovereignty
In
Saving
Jew and Gentile
Gods Glory
The
Object of
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of Sin
Design
of Grace
Demonstration of Salvation
Power Given Promises Fulfilled Paths Pursued
Righteousness
Needed
Righteousness
Credited
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Demonstrated
Righteousness
Restored to Israel
Righteousness
Applied
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IN LAW
God's Righteousness
IMPUTED
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OBEYED
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IN ELECTION
God's Righteousness
DISPLAYED
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Modified from Irving L. Jensen's excellent work "Jensen's Survey of the NT"


BE DEVOTED TO ONE ANOTHER IN BROTHERLY LOVE:
te philadelphia eis allelous philostorgoi...proegoumenoi (PMPMPN):

The original Greek lacks the words added by the translators ("be devoted") and reads...

in the love of brethren (te philadelphia), to one another (eis allelous)  kindly affectioned (philostorgoi): in the honour going before one another".

Wuest conveys the sense rendering it...

In the sphere of brotherly love have a family affection for one another, vying with one another in showing honor 

Paul places philadelphia and philostorgos first in the Greek sentence  for emphasis.

Brotherly love (5360) (philadelphia from phílos = friend + adelphós = brother) expresses a warm, affection (like brothers should exhibit) between those who are spiritual relatives in the family of God and it manifests itself in acts of kindness (Ga6:10).

Phileo love is the love of belonging, of friendship. It is a love we have for brothers because of our likenesses. (Greek for brothers = adelphos = literally "from the same womb") The Greek word for friend is philos, and it is related to the word for filial love, phileo. This root is seen in such English terms as "philanthropy" (benevolence or, literally, the love of man), and "philology" (the love of words).

A friend is one for whom you have filial love. Early Greek literature used the word philos to describe the followers of a political leader. Later it came to mean the clients of a wealthy man, or legal assistants. When the Romans embraced the language they extended the word to include friends and relatives. It is much like the "official family" of a political person, governor, or President. In ancient usage the word "friend" had much deeper implications than our casual usage. Aristotle indicated that a person might be called on to sacrifice his life for that of a friend. According to that famous Greek philosopher: "To a noble man there applies the true saying that he does all things for the sake of his friends" (Theological Dictionary of the New Testament, IX, p. 153). This concept of friendship lays the basis for the New Testament use of this word.

 It was this affectionate relationship in the early Church among Christian converts, in spite of their diverse status and varied backgrounds, that amazed the pagans.

Philostorgos (5387) (from phílos = friend + storge = natural family love or tender affection; cherishing one's kindred, esp parents or children) pertains to love or affection for those closely related to one, particularly members of one's immediate family, in this case referring to God's family composed of all believers in Christ Jesus.

Philia is affectionate love between friends and storge refers to the tender affection among family members. Storge speaks of instinctive affection, like that which parents and children feel toward one another (see a more detailed discussion of the antonym astorgos used in Romans 1:31 note). Storge is “an attachment sealed by nature and blood ties,” and is especially represented by a mother’s innate love, benevolence, and devotion toward her children. Paul is saying that the relationships among Christians should involve intimacy, understanding, and acceptance. The idea is to be devoted to other Christians with a family sort of love, not based on personal attraction or desirability (cf. 1Th 4:9).

Brotherly kindness must be cultivated (diligently) for it entails difficult duties, such as a willingness to bear one another's burdens and to forgive shortcomings and failures.

Read the following devotional entitled "More Than Socializing" from Our Daily Bread

Church can be a great place to get caught up on the latest football games, golf scores, family news, health concerns, or just to visit with friends. A cup of coffee together, a warm handshake, a friendly pat on the back are all part of the social interaction we need as human beings.

All of this is good, but New Testament fellowship goes much deeper than merely socializing when we get together at church. It takes place when we consider how we can lift up, build up, and brighten up our brothers and sisters in Christ.

The Bible clearly says that we are to "serve one another" (Galatians 5:13), forgive as we are forgiven (Ephesians 4:32), and "bear one another's burdens" (Galatians 6:2). From the first century, believers have gathered in Jesus' name to "consider one another in order to stir up love and good works" and to exhort one another (Hebrews 10:24-25).

Christian fellowship takes place when we offer encouragement to our friends, pray for them, and confess our sins and weaknesses to one another. These are the elements that make fellowship genuine.

What about your church? Are you merely socializing? Or are you practicing true Christian fellowship? —Dave Egner

We Christians have a kinship with
All others who believe,
And from that bond of faith and love
A mutual strength receive. —Hess

Christian fellowship builds us up and binds us together. (Our Daily Bread)

Why is this exhortation so vital for believers to put into practice?

Because the visual display of this quality of love in the body of Christ is the primary means by which the world recognizes us as followers of Christ (Jn 13:35 cf 1Jn 3:10, 17-19). We must love each other, because we are members of one family. We are not strangers to each other within the Christian Church; much less are we isolated units; we are brothers and sisters, because we have the one father, God.

Christians are eternally members of one family, one body and truly have a "sibling relationship" with one another. Thus we are exhorted to develop the close and affectionate relationship that should exist among brothers and sisters who are blood relatives. The blood that binds us to one another as believers is even more precious than that binding secular families together.

The use of both of these words together (philadelphia, philostorgoi) does two things. First, it magnifies the importance of understanding the church as a family. In most cases the local congregation is like the immediate family, and the church universal is the extended family. Second, it intensifies the need to consciously seek to develop toward one another the tender affection and devotion appropriate among brothers and sisters. How are we doing as a church in America? The world is "dying" to see this quality of love exhibited.

Charles Colton said:

"The firmest friendships have been formed in mutual adversity, as iron most strongly united by the fiercest flame." In other words, "A friend in need is a friend indeed."

Charles Haddon Spurgeon counted among his friends George Mueller and Hudson Taylor. On friendship Spurgeon said,

"Friendship is one of the sweetest joys of life. Many might have failed beneath the bitterness of their trial had they not found a friend."

 

GIVE PREFERENCE TO ONE ANOTHER IN HONOR: te time allelous proegoumenoi (PMPMPN)

Give preference (4285) (proegeomai from pró = before + hegeomai = lead way, think) means literally to lead the way before and so to show deference to the other person.

Proegeomai is in the middle voice which indicates that the subject initiates the action and participates in results of that action. The idea is that believers are to continuously (present tense = this is to be our habitual practice, our lifestyle before a critically watching world) give preference themselves to each other.

The idea is for your yourself to take the lead and show genuine appreciation and admiration for fellow believers by putting them first (see note Philippians 2:3) and to be willing and even desirous for them to receive honor. Quite a contrast with the world's way (see note 2 Timothy 4:1 (Torrey's Topic "Selfishness")

If the we are walking in the truth of the first part of this verse (and walking in the Spirit) and are truly “devoted to one another in brotherly love,”  it will be (supernaturally) "easy" to give preference to one another in honor. The virtue here is Christ-like humility, not thinking more highly of ourselves than we ought to think (see note on
Romans 12:3). It is doing

nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves"..."not merely" looking out "for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others." It is having "this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus” (see notes Philippians 2:3)

To honor the other person is one way of holding in check the innate human tendency to honor oneself unduly. If we are are focusing on others, it is somewhat more difficult to focus on ourselves. Our example of course is Christ (see notes on Php 2:5-7 2:8; notes on 1 Peter 2:21) (Torrey's Topic "Example of Christ")

Honor (5092) (time from tío = pay honor, respect) refers to the worth, value or merit of some thing or some one. Time is a valuing by which the price is fixed or an estimation of the value of a thing. Finally and most importantly in the present context, time is our attitude towards another person which is commensurate their value (as God sees them).

We honor that which is precious to us

To honor someone is to show genuine appreciation and admiration for the other individual. Believers who are being transformed by the renewing of their mind should be becoming more and more sensitive to showing respect, to acknowledging the accomplishments of others, to demonstrating genuine love by not being jealous or envious. These are the marks of a sincere faith which is maturing. Such a one in fact is to take the lead in the carrying out of these actions. If we have truly presented ourselves as a living sacrifices, we should be growing in these graces (and they can only be carried out by His empowering grace).

How am I doing this week with others?

Especially with my mate?...my children? ...my employer or employee?

Paul, why did you have to start "meddling"?

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ILLUSTRATIONS OF BIBLE TRUTH - by Harry A. Ironside - HONOR TO WHOM HONOR IS DUE - "Be not ye called Rabbi" (Matt. 23:8). "In honour preferring one another" (Rom. 12:10).

On one occasion when in London, I was walking home from a meeting; part of the way I was accompanied by the Marquis of Aberdeen (who had presided) and the Lord Bishop of Norwich (who had been one of the speakers). Being an American, and unaccustomed to titles, I felt embarrassed as to how I should address men of their position. I expressed my perplexity, and the Marquis replied, "My dear brother, just address us as your brethren in CHRIST. We could have no higher honor than that." This was surely to enter into the spirit of what the LORD JESUS taught.

We are told to give honor to whom honor is due. On the other hand, the servant of CHRIST is to seek the honor that cometh from GOD only. The first passage delivers from rudeness and that pride which apes humility, as it refuses to recognize the gifts which CHRIST has given to His Church. The other is a rebuke to all self-seeking and fleshly ostentation on the part of those to whom the LORD has entrusted any special ministry for the edification of His Church.

 

Romans 12:11 not lagging behind in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord;

Greek: te spoude me okneroi, to pneumati zeontes, (PAPMPN) to kurio douleuontes, (PAPMPN)
Amplified: Never lag in zeal and in earnest endeavor; be aglow and burning with the Spirit, serving the Lord.
Moffatt: “Never let your zeal flag, maintain the spiritual glow, serve the Lord"
NLT: Never be lazy in your work, but serve the Lord enthusiastically.
Phillips:  Let us not allow slackness to spoil our work and let us keep the fires of the spirit burning, as we do our work for God.
Wuest: with respect to zeal, not lazy; fervent in the sphere of the Spirit, serving the Lord
Young's Literal: in the diligence not slothful; in the spirit fervent; the Lord serving;

 NOT LAGGING (lazy, sluggish, slothful) BEHIND (shrinking from) IN DILIGENCE: te spoude me okneroi:

 

Lagging (3636) (okneros from okneo = to be slow, delay, hesitate) means shrinking from or hesitating to engage in something worthwhile, possibly implying lack of ambition.

 

Don't be slow, tardy, slothful, lazy in your diligence (interesting mix of words isn't it?)

 

Diligence (4710) (spoude from speudo = hasten, make haste) means to do something hurriedly. It means to do something with intense effort and motivation. Spoude speaks primarily of an attitude which is associated with or leads to an action. Spoude describes one who is eager to do something,  with the implication of readiness to expend energy and effort. Eagerness, devotion, earnestness in accomplishing, striving after.

 

Whatever is worth doing in the Christian life is valuable enough to be done with enthusiasm and care (Jn 9:4 Gal 6:10 , see notes Hebrews 6:10; 6:11, Ecc 9:10 Spurgeon on Ecc 9:10 2Th 3:13). Sloth and indifference not only prevent good, but allow evil to prosper (Pr 18:9 ; see notes Ephesians 5:15; 5:16). (See Torrey's Topics "Diligence", "Idleness & sloth")

Cranfield says, Paul is warning us against

 

“that attitude which seeks to get by with as little work and inconvenience as possible, which shrinks from dust and heat and resents the necessity for any exertion as a burden and imposition”

 

 FERVENT IN SPIRIT: to pneumati zeontes (PAPMPN): (Mt 24:12 Col 4:12-13 1Pe 1:22 4:8 Rev 2:4 3:15-16) The idea is with respect to the spirit, "boiling" (in a figurative sense of course).

Fervent (2204) (zeo) means to be hot (boil, of liquids; or glow, of solids), seethe, bubble, boil. It was used to describe water boiling or of metal glowing with heat. In NT, zeo is used figuratively meaning to be fervent, to burn with desire or exhibit passion. In a negative sense it can connote rage .

Paul is saying literally “to boil in spirit.” This phrase suggests having plenty of heat to produce adequate, productive energy, but not so much heat that one goes out of control (Acts 18:25; 1Cor 9:26; Gal 6:9).

Be "hot" for Jesus...just don't burn everyone up everyone around you. (Torrey's Topic "Zeal"). Christ is our example (Ps 69:9; Jn 2:17). The idea is that believers are to continuously (present tense = this is to be our habitual practice, our lifestyle before a critical, watching world)

Zeal should be exhibited in spirit
Romans 12:11, in well-doing Gal 4:18; notes on Titus 2:14, in desiring the salvation of others Acts 26:29; Romans 10:1 (note), in contending for the faith Jude 1:3,in missionary labors Romans 15:19 (note); Romans 15:23 (note), for the glory of God Nu 25:11,13, for the welfare of saints Colossians 4:13 (note), against idolatry 2Ki 23:4-14 (Modified from Torrey's Topic "Zeal")

In the context of Christian service "fervent" means “to be full of energy, to be on fire with zeal and enthusiasm.” It is a warning against settling into comfortable, shallow ruts in our spiritual lives. The idea is that believers are to continuously (present tense = this is to be our habitual practice, our lifestyle before a critically watching world) be "hot" for the things of the Lord.

The idea of the Greek word zeo is not of being overheated to the point of boiling over and out of control but, like a steam engine, of having sufficient heat to produce the energy necessary to get the work done. That principle is reflected in the life of Henry Martyn, the tireless missionary to India, whose heart’s desire was to “burn out for God.” which is exactly what he did in 6 years! Read his short albeit convicting testimony of one who was truly "fervent in spirit"...

Henry Martyn  (click for longer biography) was born in 1781, studied at Cambridge, and became Senior Wrangler. (That is, he won the Cambridge University annual mathematics problem-solving competition, and was accordingly recognized as the University's best undergraduate mathematician. "Wrangling" is a British University expression for solving mathematical problems.) He had, moreover, a considerable facility in languages. Under the encouragement of Charles Simeon, he abandoned his intention of going into law and instead went to India as a chaplain in 1806. In the six remaining years of his life, he translated the New Testament into Hindi and Persian, revised an Arabic translation of the New Testament, and translated the Psalter into Persian and the Prayer Book into Hindi. In 1811 he left India for Persia, hoping to do further translations and to improve his existing ones, there and in Arabia. But travel in those days was not a healthy occupation, and he fell ill and eventually died at Tokat on October 16, 1812. (The American Calendar commemorates him on 19 October.) He was buried by the Armenian church there, with the honors ordinarily reserved for one of their own bishops. His diary has been called "one of the most precious treasures of Anglican devotion."  (Reference)

 

Tis not for man to trifle; life is brief
   And sin is here.
Our age is but the falling of a leaf,
   A dropping tear.
We have not time to sport away the hours;
All must be earnest in a world like ours.
                                      —Horatius Bonar

 

SERVING THE LORD: to kurio douleuontes (PAPMPN): (Ep 6:5-8 Col 3:23-24 1Co 7:22 Titus 2:9-10 Heb 12:28)

 

Serving (1398) (douleuo from doulos = slave or one who is in bondage or bound to another, in the state of being completely controlled by someone or something) means to be in bondage or in the position of servant and to act accordingly, dutifully obeying the master's commands.

One who lives as a doulos to His Lord, is a bondservant  who is surrendered wholly to His Master's will and devoted to Him to the disregard of his own interest. Paul exhibited this mindset and was not his own but understood he had been bought with the price of the blood of the One Whom He loving served. He recognized that he was now the property of the Lord Jesus Christ and were to be exclusively His slave. No man can serve two masters (see note Matthew 6:24). We were all once slaves of Sin by our birth into Adam's likeness, but now we are privileged to be slaves of Christ by our new birth. As His slaves we are allow our will to be "swallowed up" in His perfect will.

We are to continuously serve our Master (